April 5, 1908 - October 6, 1989
"Everybody has a heart. Except some people."
Legend. Over eighty films, 2 Oscars, 10 nominations, and an Emmy.
By 1983 she kicked cancer's ass, overcame a stroke and a broken hip in quick
succession. Ultimately it was
the cancer that returned to claim it's star prize. That was pretty good,
Inevitably people will compare her to Joan Crawford. Davis, like Crawford...
they both had certain periods in their lives that made them look like
completely different people. 4 different periods, 4 completely different
looks. It's bizarre. Another interesting comparison - both actresses
had vile children who wrote nasty books about them. Fortunately in Bette's case,
her daughter did it while she was still alive. Bette was able to defend
herself with her own book.
"I am still recovering from the fact that a child of mine would write about me behind my back, to say nothing about the kind of book it is. I will never recover as completely from B.D.'s book as I have from the stroke. Both were shattering experiences." Her memoir concluded with a letter to her daughter, in which she addressed her several times as "Hyman", and described her actions as "a glaring lack of loyalty and thanks for the very privileged life I feel you have been
given." She concluded with a reference to the title of Hyman's book, "If it refers to money, if my memory serves me right, I've been your keeper all these many years. I am continuing to do so, as my name has made your book about me a success." Snap.
Bette had lived the life, and had many homes. Her home in Laguna Beach is still a tourist
attraction and a Historical Landmark. This is the home she was living in
during production for All About Eve.
Co-star Celeste Holm: "I
walked onto the set of 'All About Eve' on the first day and said, 'Good
Morning,' and do you know her reply? She said, 'Oh shit, good manners'. I never
spoke to her again - ever."
Geographic entertainer Brian Donnelly and his escort Christine Davis visited the
Laguna landmark and documented it for our posterior. I know.
It's a joke. Deal. Mailbox alert.
Her last home was on
the 4th floor of the Colonial House,
a very well known building in West
Hollywood. This place has hosted a plethora of people that have went on
to become serious stars including Julia Roberts, Sandra Bullock, Tim Burton, Clark Gable,
Myrna Loy etc. Bette's own apartment (which I
understand she put a canopy on her balcony against the building rules.
What were they going to do, evict her?) went on the market in early 2010 for
just over 2 million. She allegedly bought the apartment
(with the help of Miss Roddy McDowall) because it overlooked another apartment
building she and her mother lived in, when they first got to Hollywood, dead
Jamie Lee Curtis was once asked, "What is first thing that comes to mind when
hear the name Bette Davis?"
"Heat. I have to qualify this. I was president of the homeowners
association at the Colonial House in West Hollywood where she lived. I would get calls from her. (Jamie
impersonates Bette Davis' voice) "Hello. Jamie. This is Bette Davis. It's too cold. I want
the heat." I'd say, "Miss Davis, I understand you are chilly, but its July. I can't in good
conscience go to the board of directors and say that we're going to turn on the
heat and charge people for heat in July
in Southern California. I really would suggest you get a heater or plug ins." She'd answer, "It's
too expensive on my electric bill."
My pal Mark Cramer had an encounter with the
great lady. Mark says, "It was an incredible moment for me, but it was just
one small moment. In the mid 80's I was visiting a friend that lived near to the
Colonial House. I parked my car across from the building and noticed a
white mist near the front entrance. It was dark. I crossed the street and I noticed a
small woman standing
there, just barely visible through the cloud of smoke.
As I got closer,
I saw that it was Bette Davis. She was so tiny and dressed exquisitely. I remember she had
on white gloves (with big yellow nicotine stains on them, no doubt). As I walked
past I looked at her, nodded and said "Good evening Miss Davis". She smiled and said
"Hello." It's something I will never
forget. Thanks Mark - a great moment to remember.
"Goddamnit I was acting
before you were even thought of!"
In 1987 Lindsay Anderson was directing Bette and Lillian Gish in The Whales
of August, he paid a compliment one day to Gish. "Miss Gish, you just gave us a
marvelous close-up!" to which Davis replied, "She should. She invented them." Someone I know that worked on
the film told me
that you could smell the death on that set.
Her last film - some would call it her
"death bed" performance - The Wicked Stepmother. Bette's
body had given up, and it's apparent. According to some, Bette had a
disagreement with the director and walked off the set. Others say that
she saw the dailies and didn't like the way she looked - which was dreadful. Historically - it's fascinating.
In October of 1989, Bette was honored with lifetime achievement
award (which in other circles is considered the "Goodbye
Sebastian Film Festival in Spain.
Bette's cancer had returned and she knew it. In her acceptance speech she stated, "If they'd waited any longer to give me this award, I wouldn't be here to receive
She then went to Paris, a stopover before her
return to America.
On October 6, 1989, Bette was
taken by ambulance to The
American Hospital in Paris.
She was dead at the age of 81. That's 567 in dog years.
Flowers were placed on her star
on the Hollywood Walk of Fame (thank you
"I don't want anyone sending money to any little
charity instead of flowers. I want millions of flowers
I want everyone to weep.
Her funeral was held on October 12 at Forest Lawn Hollywood Hills.
The Reverend Robert M. Bock of the First Christian Church in North Hollywood
oversaw the service.
She was survived by her ungrateful daughter B.
D., a son, Michael Merrill,
and another daughter, Margot Merrill.
She is buried in an impressive
grave in Forest Lawn, Hollywood Hills. Her grave marker reads,
"She did it the hard
January 2015: Check out
more on Bette's burial here.
Davis became even more embedded in pop culture history when Kim Carnes sang the #1 song Bette
Davis Eyes in 1981. "It was a thrill to become a part of the rock generation" Carnes gifted Bette with her gold record, which adorned the wall of her last
home. Could you imagine if Bette had donated her eyes? Oh my God. If
you were the recipient? Could. You. Imagine. How wild it would
be to actually have Bette Davis' Eyes.
I was still living in Chicago when Bette died, and that
evening I went to a club called Berlin.
The video screen came down and
the song Bette
Davis Eyes began. I remember really having a somber
moment. She was a huge presence in film and in the world, and
that was it. Bette Davis was done.
Various bits of trivia:
Here's a photo of the house
in Hancock Park, where Bette
and Joan Crawford filmed Whatever Happened to Baby Jane, as well
as the newspaper
building where Jane Hudson took out an ad.
Findadeath.com friend Rick sends us this: Back in the eighties, Bette was in Dallas to film the Ron Howard film Skyward. I found out where she was staying and sent her a dozen daisies, with a note telling her how much I had admired her body of work and her success at surviving in an industry that doesn't value older actresses. About a week later, I was amazed to get a cool 8 1/2 by 11 photo from her, signed and personalized, and a real sweet note thanking me for the daisies which she said was her favorite flower. What a class act.
Did you know that Bette recorded a single in
1962 - of a tune called Whatever Happened to Baby Jane? Well my buddy
Michael Krahn sent it to me, and it is fantastic. I'd link it here, but Youtube
will snatch it down in a heartbeat. See if you can find it, it's pretty
Findadeath.com friend David Fowles visited the worst wax
museum in the world, in Hollywood, and snapped this
photo for us. Thanks David!
Sometimes wax museums get it right.
Rarely. The new Madame Tussauds in Hollywood has one of Bette that is
pretty amazing. Thanks to James Rieker for sending it
Bette is also immortalized with her foot
and handprints at the Chinese Theater.
Whatever Happened to Baby Jane came out with a special edition,
which has great extra features, including a "making of" documentary of
them filming in front of the house.
A copy of Bette's Will
(complete with a simple smack down to BD) is available at Celebrity
Back in 2003 we had a Death Hag picnic in the
Bette Davis Park in Glendale.
Yes, such a wonderful place does indeed exist!
Bette art available here